Get over the break up and find your love again

Sometimes, the pain of breakup is so intense that it can shake our beliefs about romance and relationships. When these emotional traumas are not understood and have not healed properly, they become invisible baggage that drag with us into the next relationship.

As time goes on and we all have relationships that we categorize as a "failure" or hurtful and otherwise damaging. There is a positive viewpoint and henceforth method which allows the mind to heal faster... thereby allowing your next attempt at a loving relationship a higher percentage to succeed. Would you agree that a simple classification or definition can transform the mental thought processes into a negative one or a positive one... repeat the following out loud 6 times: I feel real bad. (say it with the emotional despair and angry feelings associated with it) Note how your posture, brain and overall demeanor feels. Next repeat out loud 6 times: I feel fantastic! (say it with the same deep emotions but with an upbeat proud one) Note again how you feel. Feel the power to change your attitude???!!! Empower yourself!

You are the director of your mind and thusly your heart. The ol song... "free your mind and the rest will follow" is a good'n.

Next step. Which would you rather chose of the following 1 or 2:

1. The importance in disclaiming the other (ex) just to justify feeling right or better about how they made us feel bad or hurt us with whatever they did or did not do?? Re-read that statement please... Acknowledging or giving credibility to empowering someone else to control and otherwise effect your life regardless of what it is... is a continuous and perpetual madness which takes an enormous amount of time to crawl out of! The true believe that anyone has the power to make you feel a certain way is false. Isn't it more in the realms that we allow them to? I believe the later is the true answer wouldn't you agree? (granted the exceptions of actual physical harm or immense financial devastation)

2. The importance to preserve your own happiness and such and! So those around you can truly benefit from being with a truly loving emotionally available person? So my thoughts of assisting you to is to give the next person a chance without the defensive stance you... (remember you are the director of your life out of your eyes and subsequently your mind!) I repeat... You put yourselves in and ultimately through by cognitive actions to remain defensive. More importantly though is giving yourself a rightful and deserving "better" chance at loving again by starting right now to forgive others and put aside self blame by accepting that which we are condoned with and move on... Simply by reclassifying such thoughts. Let the next one know the real thoughtful you by changing your mind to change your life and show the true loving person that we all are designed to be and have the potential to become! Start right now! Unless you are the next one to save the world and cure that which they say is incurable... It is the only alternative don't you think? Faith, Hope and Love will win.

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